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“Love Repulst”: Paradoxical Desire

Pulter’s advice for women, “Love Repulst doth more increase desire” (19), is part of the broader features of Renaissance rape culture. Rape culture is a sociological concept originating with second-wave feminism in the 1970s that identifies the normalization of (male) sexual violence and the blame placed on victims of sexual assault. Kay Stanton discusses the pressing connections between contemporary rape culture and our early modern antecedents in Shakespeare/Sex: Contemporary Readings in Gender and Sexuality.1 In many early modern renderings of rape culture, the more a woman resists sexual advances, the more enticing she becomes to her attacker, “As Oyl Thrown on to quench augments the fire” (20). Compare Pulter’s treatment of this sentiment to the following examples:

Note when Daphne appears “most lovely” to Apollo in Ovid’s Metamorphoses. Apollo’s inability to catch the elusive Daphne even drives him “mad.” How does this relate to the turtle’s pursuit in Pulter’s poem?

  • Lovely the virgin seemed as the soft wind
  • exposed her limbs, and as the zephyrs fond
  • fluttered amid her garments, and the breeze
  • fanned lightly in her flowing hair. She seemed
  • most lovely to his fancy in her flight;
  • and mad with love he followed in her steps,
  • and silent hastened his increasing speed.
Ovid. Metamorphoses. Trans. Brookes More. Boston: Cornhill Publishing, 1922, 1–528–34.

Note how Pulter describes the turtle’s paramour as “wise,” “fair,” and “chaste.” How does this relate to the way Angelo in Shakespeare’s Measure for Measure (1604) describes Isabella’s “modesty” and “virtue”?

  • ANGELO:
  • Can it be
  • That modesty may more betray our sense
  • Than woman’s lightness?
  • Never could the strumpet,
  • With all her double vigour, art and nature,
  • Once stir my temper; but this virtuous maid
  • Subdues me quite.
Shakespeare, William. Measure for Measure. The Riverside Shakespeare, 2nd ed. Ed. G. Blakemore Evans and J.J.M. Tobin. New York: Houghton Mifflin, 1996, 2.2.204–206, 220–223.

Note how Pulter’s pursued turtle layers love with fear, as one emotion overtakes and then subsumes the other: “Thus Love then fear did prove more Swift in Chase” (13). How does DeFlores in Middleton’s The Changeling (1622) use a similar relationship between love and fear (and the “turtle,” here in reference to a turtledove) to introduce this coercive sexual encounter with Beatrice Joanna?

  • DeFLORES:
  • Come, rise, and shroud your blushes in my bosom,
  • Silence is one of pleasures best receipts:
  • Thy peace is wrought for ever in this yielding.
  • ’Las how the Turtle pants! Thou’lt love anon,
  • What thou so fear’st, and faint’st to venture on.
Middleton, Thomas. The Changeling. Thomas Middleton: The Collected Works. Ed. Gary Taylor and John Lavagnino. Oxford: Oxford University Press, 2010, 3.4.167–171.

Note how Pulter’s male turtle requests both “Love, and pitty” (4). How does this relate to the way the Duke in Middleton’s Women Beware Women (c. 1623) discusses pity, affection, and pleasure?

  • DUKE:
  • Sure I think
  • Thou know’st the way to please me. I affect
  • A passionate pleading, ’bove an easie yeilding,
  • But never pitied any, they deserve none
  • That will not pity me: I can command,
  • Think upon that; yet if thou truly knewest
  • The infinite pleasure my affection takes
  • In gentle, fair entreatings, when loves businesses
  • Are carried curteously ’twixt heart and heart,
  • You’ld make more haste to please me.
Middleton, Thomas. Women Beware Women. Thomas Middleton: The Collected Works. Ed. Gary Taylor and John Lavagnino. Oxford: Oxford University Press, 2010, 2.2.358–367.

Footnotes

1. Stanton, Kay. “‘For me, I am the mistress of my fate’: Lucrece, rape culture, and feminist political activism.” Shakespeare/Sex: Contemporary Readings in Gender and Sexuality. Ed. Jennifer Drouin. New York: Bloomsbury Publishing, 2020, p. 26